When we think of discipline, we often envision grueling routines, early mornings, or bootcamp-style motivation. But discipline isn’t always loud or dramatic. In fact, the strongest kind of discipline is often found in the quiet, consistent things we do each day—especially when no one is watching.
Here are five small habits that have helped me build a stronger sense of discipline—and how they’ve shaped my mindset and daily life:
1. Make your bed each morning.
Admiral William H. McRaven once said, “If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.” His message? Do the little things right, and the big things will follow. Starting your day with this simple act gives you an immediate win and reinforces the mindset that details matter. It’s a small task that signals the start of order, intention, and pride in your surroundings.
2. Set a consistent wake-up time.
Benjamin Franklin wasn’t wrong when he said, “Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.” There’s something powerful about choosing when your day begins and not leaving it up to chance (or the snooze button). A consistent wake-up time trains your body and your mind to be dependable—and that consistency carries into other areas of life.
3. Write down 3 daily goals.
Each morning during my quiet time, I jot down three specific goals I want to accomplish for the day. This simple act brings focus and clarity. It’s not about overwhelming myself with a to-do list—it’s about identifying what really matters today and directing my energy there. It’s amazing how much more intentional my day feels when I begin with this clarity.
4. Read for 10 minutes a day.
Reading is one of my non-negotiables. As part of my structured quiet time, I dive into a devotional, reflect through journaling or prayer, and dedicate about 30 minutes to focused reading. These moments are grounding and growth-filled. Whether it’s spiritual, personal development, or leadership-related content, those 10 minutes (or more) make me sharper, calmer, and more prepared for what the day brings.
5. Prepare your next day the night before.
This habit goes all the way back to 7th grade, when my mom had me lay out my clothes the night before school. I didn’t realize it then, but she was teaching me how to create smoother mornings and reduce decision fatigue. Today, that same habit shows up in setting the coffee pot, prepping my bag and clothes, or even mentally reviewing my schedule. A few intentional minutes at night go a long way in setting up a successful tomorrow.
These habits may seem small—but that’s the point. Self-discipline isn’t about perfection. It’s about repetition. It’s about doing what needs to be done, even when it’s not glamorous or groundbreaking. These five practices have become part of my blueprint, helping me stay grounded, focused, and ready.
So I’ll leave you with this question:
If someone looked at your daily habits, what would they say you’re building?
